this is hard for me. i don't like pointing out flaws. its like when you and i had that email conversation that one time about what you think your flaws are and i really...i don't see those characteristics in you but at the same time i don't know you IRL. i'm seeing the side of you...that you show me, that you show us. like you've said before, you and i get along great online but i'm sure we'd do a ton of little things that got on each others nerves if we really got to know each other IRL. just like i'm sure bden and ryro fight all the time. ;)
but honestly? i’d rather tell people what i like about them. it just seems pointless for me to point out something bad when you can give them praise, instead. direct them somewhere that they are excelling in, rather than tell them what they are doing wrong. people beat themselves up enough as it is, they don’t need others pointing out those weaknesses in their character, too. i’ve had people do that to me; it sucks. i would never do that to anyone else, least of all you.
i miss you? it seems we got to talk a lot more when i first met you. but that's more of a flaw for ME, not you. you're just trying to accommodate everyone on your flist, which is....totally not a flaw at all lmao. you’re wonderfully caring of your flist, really. <3
OWWWWWWYYYYYYYYY I JUST STUBBED MY TOE REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY HARDDD OUCHYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ouchouchouchouchouch. :'( I NEED TO STOP SPINNING IN THIS CHAIRRRRRRR OMGG OUCHHHHHHHH!!!
i just. i honestly haven't seen a side of you that doesn't...that i find...bad. like. you've always been really sweet to me, and you know that i've always loved your writing, so. *shrugs*
i'm just not being very helpful with all of this, am i? lol. i fail. :/
oh okayokayokayokay i have a good one:
YOU SUCK BECAUSE YOU WONT COME TO CHICAGO TO VISIT ME. THERE. :OOOOO bad colin! tsk tsk *smacks your hand* BAD >:/
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Date: 2009-03-09 10:37 pm (UTC)but honestly? i’d rather tell people what i like about them. it just seems pointless for me to point out something bad when you can give them praise, instead. direct them somewhere that they are excelling in, rather than tell them what they are doing wrong. people beat themselves up enough as it is, they don’t need others pointing out those weaknesses in their character, too. i’ve had people do that to me; it sucks. i would never do that to anyone else, least of all you.
i miss you? it seems we got to talk a lot more when i first met you. but that's more of a flaw for ME, not you. you're just trying to accommodate everyone on your flist, which is....totally not a flaw at all lmao. you’re wonderfully caring of your flist, really. <3
OWWWWWWYYYYYYYYY I JUST STUBBED MY TOE REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY HARDDD OUCHYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ouchouchouchouchouch. :'( I NEED TO STOP SPINNING IN THIS CHAIRRRRRRR OMGG OUCHHHHHHHH!!!
dkfjdkshgoidsfhiofhdsuofhdsuhfidsjfidsjfdsf PAINNNN!!!
ow. :'(
carrying on...
i just. i honestly haven't seen a side of you that doesn't...that i find...bad. like. you've always been really sweet to me, and you know that i've always loved your writing, so. *shrugs*
i'm just not being very helpful with all of this, am i? lol. i fail. :/
oh okayokayokayokay i have a good one:
YOU SUCK BECAUSE YOU WONT COME TO CHICAGO TO VISIT ME. THERE. :OOOOO bad colin! tsk tsk *smacks your hand* BAD >:/
there's a really hot ryden sex scene about halfway through this chapter
kay, now i have to go because my toe is bleeding onto the carpet. shit.